This really made me think. I do feel this way too. Maybe that's why I get so scared to actually finish something - then others will see it. It's weird because I WANT others to see it (I need validation too much), but I'm also scared to show it to them. Interesting thoughts! Thank you!
I don't think that's weird. I think that's exactly the tension. We want people to see what we've created, but once they do, we no longer get to control what they think of it. I suspect that's what makes finishing feel so vulnerable. Thank you for sharing that so honestly.
This really made me think. I do feel this way too. Maybe that's why I get so scared to actually finish something - then others will see it. It's weird because I WANT others to see it (I need validation too much), but I'm also scared to show it to them. Interesting thoughts! Thank you!
I don't think that's weird. I think that's exactly the tension. We want people to see what we've created, but once they do, we no longer get to control what they think of it. I suspect that's what makes finishing feel so vulnerable. Thank you for sharing that so honestly.