Why I am here.

I have spent most of my life building things for other people.

Careers. Teams. Organisations. Results that belonged to someone else’s vision, someone else’s company, someone else’s dream. I was good at it, very good.
I became a leader in my early twenties and never looked back. I have worked across industries and borders - oil/gas, bioenergy, consultancy, manufacturing, education. I lived abroad. I ran an incubator for young entrepreneurs. I taught at business schools. I studied economics, business, law, and psychology. I completed a Board Director programme at INSEAD in France. Every opportunity I ever had came through reputation and referral. I have never applied for a job.

And I did all of this while raising my son largely on my own from the age of twenty-one. He came with me on every adventure. I never saw him as a reason to slow down. He was simply part of how I moved through the world.

For a long time, that was enough.

And then it wasn’t.

In my late forties I noticed the fight was gone. Not the ability, the appetite. I started asking questions I could not answer. I stepped back. I took care of family members who needed me. And in that quieter, harder period, I found something I had not expected: clarity.

I knew what I wanted. For the first time in my life, I wanted to build something entirely my own. Not for a company. Not for someone else’s strategy. Mine.

I also knew something else. That the experience I had accumulated, the decades of leading, building, failing, learning, and starting again, was not a liability. It was the most valuable thing I owned. And I was not alone in having underestimated it.

That is why I am here.

I write for women who are at that same turning point.

Women who have worked their entire lives. Who built careers, raised children, held families together, led teams, navigated complexity, and never once stopped to ask what they actually wanted. Because there was always something else that needed to come first.

And now, quietly, the questions have started coming.

Why does this no longer feel like me? Why do I feel invisible in rooms I used to own? Is it too late to want something different? And if I did want something different, where would I even begin?

They open LinkedIn (or other Social Media) and find a flood of content about midlife crisis. About women falling apart. About age as a problem to be managed. And none of it sounds like them. Because they are not falling apart. They are not in crisis. They have simply outgrown something, and they do not yet have the language for what comes next.

I know that feeling. I lived it.

This is a space for women who are done being invisible. Who know they have more to give. Who are ready - finally - to put themselves first and figure out what that actually looks like.

Here, I write personally. About leadership, about purpose, about the particular kind of courage it takes to start something for yourself after decades of starting things for everyone else. Honest, direct, and always from lived experience.

And if you are ready to take that further, to turn everything you have built and learned into something real and structured that is entirely yours, that is what The Strategic Second Act is built for. It is the programme I wish had existed when I needed it most. For accomplished women who are done waiting and ready to build.

You did not find this place by accident.

Start here.
- Pia


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